Alathea,
I certainly simpathise with you, problems of this type can be very exasperating to diagnose, and sometimes even Pros miss things.
Thank you for the Drawing, though it's value didn't provide me with much insight to your problem. So, let me just make some statements here, where you can evaluate them, and possibly focus on the issue.
First, Alternators now come with built in Voltage Regulators. Usually they work, or they don't, but there are times when they kinda work.
As I said, you need to see 14.5 Volts Direct Current placed on your Battery, regardless of how much load you have "turned on" on your Vehicle. (Lights-A/C-anything).
You said that the Vehicle operated (cranked-ran) during the day, isn't that right? But, when you drove it at night, it messed up, right?
That leads me to believe that the Alternator is not putting out sufficient Voltage, to maintain the Battery, when the accessories are being used.
I can't understand why the Technician who checked your Vehicle, couldn't have detected a lack of Voltage, when you idled and revved the motor, turning on the accessories. He should have told you clearly, that the Alternator was, or was not putting out enough voltage. Assuming he knew what that Voltage was? Now you do, (14.5 VDC) regardless of the load.
Now, IF the Alternator is marginal, putting out just a little voltage, that could cause it to operate ok during the Day, but, when you load the system (Lights-A/C), it is short of voltage, and then causes problems.
Now, IF the Battery has a weak Cell, and will not store the Voltage, it could be completely bad, or marginally bad, causing the problems to show up when you used the Accessories.
He told you that your Battery was ok, so, that leaves the Alternator, OR, a pretty bad short (drain on the system) when the Accessories are used.
Given these variables, I just don't see how you're going to diagnose this, without involving a knowledgeable Professional, who specializes in Vehicle Electrical Repair.
I wish I could give you an alternative, but, possibly this will help you decide which direction to take.
Have a good Day !
S.W.