Hi Zoomer, welcome to the forum

I am happy you joined us.
I am not 100% sure of the following, but it is a suggestion I heard many, many times that have helped, so perhaps this can help with your cam's problem as well:
Open the door of the tape from the bottom and leave it open - Turn the power of your camcorder off and remove the battery - While the battery is removed, turn the power switch on and leave both the power on and the tape door open - and REPLACE your battery. This way, it is said, the tape should eject without damage.