Toad car alarm reset button

Recently the battery in my car went flat, this resulted in my toad alarm system going into what appears to be the servicing/valet mode which i have seen mentioned on a few other sites. From reading info on different sites it appears all i need to do is put the key in the ignition and turn it all the way and then press the servicing/valet button...simple? However i cant find this button at all, i have looked under the dashboard, under the steering wheel, in the fuse box in the car, in the glovebox, behind the glovebox, I've even resorted to taking apart bits of the drivers side dashboard to find it still without any luck. Have you got any suggestions as to common locations of this button? i tried contacting toad and all they tried to do is send me out an engineer at the cost of £100....No Thanks! I hope you can help me. Cheers.

Sometimes people dont put these in, i would suggest finding the control box and see if there is one and if there is follow the wires.